The majority of the couples that come to the marriage recovery center are in a reactive state of mind. They’ve come to a place where they are so stuck in their position that feel they are right and their partner is wrong.

I see these couples as defensive, angry, stubborn, and downright self-righteous.

They act [...]

More Information

At the Marriage Recovery Center we encourage couples to end the fighting.

As we teach these couples how to share their deeper feelings and learn to really hear each other, we see a deep deep connection like they have never experienced before. Profoundly powerful!

However from what I have found,  men (and often women) don’t [...]

More Information

Most of the work we do at the Marriage Recovery Center is with couples in crisis.

One of the common problems I see is a partner who is extremely volatile in their emotions partnered with a mate who is stuck in a pattern of enabling her destructive behavior.

If you have read my blogs in the past, [...]

More Information

“My husband is NEVER going to change! He keeps promising things will be different, but words are all I hear.”

I cannot even begin to tell you how often I hear this from women calling or emailing the Marriage Recovery Center.  Countless women continue to struggle in dysfunctional marriages because they feel completely hopeless to change [...]

More Information

A huge part of my job at the Marriage Recovery Center is helping couples to set boundaries in their marriage. I find these couples have incredible success once there are limits set around dysfunctional behavior. Marriages are saved by implementing boundaries.
As you can tell I am serious fan of boundaries.  However, the downfall [...]

More Information

I always thought I had a normal marriage.  I was well aware that I was not living in marital bliss, but growing up with a single mother I did not see a good example of a healthy marriage.  It wasn’t until friends began making comments about how my husband spoke to me, or would constantly question me [...]

More Information

{Name (First):2.3}, thank you very much for ordering my latest ebook on the 10 keys to having a love life of your dreams. I’m so pleased with this ebook and the message it brings. If you have any additional questions or simply want to talk to me about anything in this ebook, please contact me [...]

More Information

Have you been feeling powerless in discussions with your spouse? Do you feel misunderstood, unheard, even dismissed? Are you both stuck in who is right and who is wrong? Do you find yourself wanting to “win” the fight you are both engage in?

If you answered a resounding “yes” to these questions, you are definitely not alone.  I work day in and day out [...]

More Information